Online dating has become as integral part of our culture as the Internet itself. Lack of time to make a dating makes online dating growing fast. This modern outgrowth of dating services has its superiority, limitless communication and romantic style. While, every coin has two sides. It may put you at risk to connect with a people you know nothing about his true identity.
The Risk of Online Dating
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Point: Online dating has some dangers existing your chat to others.
Reason: You hardly know the real identity of the people you are chatting with. Something miserable may happen. What about the one you communicate is a married one? What if the man or women run scams against you? Or maybe once you gave your E-mail address, and got a lot of spams the next day? Even more, you may encounter an abnormal people who would do crazy things.
Example: One governor from a famous bank was cheated out of about $1,000,000 from a woman. When it got an exposure, people found the woman was ugly in appearance and poor in education. The woman was crazy in gambling and spent all the money on it.
Point: People should take some safety precautions to protect themselves been hurt.
It can be a great experience for you if you take safety precautions in online dating. There are some tips for you:
Make yourself more attractive
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Point: If you want to have more opportunity to encounter your Mr. /Miss Right, you should take some ways to make you more attractive.
Reason: People do not want to communicate with anyone who looks dull. You can observe this from some details, ID, sayings, ways of speaking and any others.
Example: One of my screen name is fade away. This attracts people who are fond of music. Someone asked me whether my name derived from Metallica's Fade to Black or HIM's Close to The Flame. The people who asked attracted me as well because I knew we have something in common.
Point: Try to toot your own horn in many ways, your wisdom, ability and humor all are parts of your charm.
Get another E-mail account for online dating.
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Point: This separate E-mail account that is used solely for online will make you safer and keep your personal information from leaking out.
Reason: Though online dating services offer message system, you' d better make a one in case of been requested from your chatting friend. You also can establish some accounts from messaging services such as MSN, SKYPE and any others through this E-mail account.
Example: Once you were asked to give your E-mail address to potential dates, you can give this one. Whatever he/she is, it results little bad effect on your life or work. Once you knew the one try to date you was a guy with his intention in spreading spams, you could blacklist him.
Point: A separate E-mail account is important for you in online dating. Do not feel guilty to make one or some accounts from messaging services. It is just a way to protect you.
Do not leak any true personal information in online dating.
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Point: It is better to avoid to talk about your true personal information in your online dating. It includes your phone number, work place, location, work number, personal website, or anything related to your identity or your families'.
Reason: You may encounter various of people with different background. This will protect you from unknown dangers.
Example: One piece of your information will lead to Cyber Manhunt, hence your disaster comes. In 2008, about 600 personalities had their phone number exposed, people didn't know the cause, but they saw the results it brought.
Point: Whatever the man said or encouraged to you, you should never give a piece of personal information. If you are really about the man, you can get another phone number.
Know more about the person you dating with online
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Point: If you are serious to the man you meet online, you should know more about him/her before you make a gathering.
Reason: The more you know him/her, the lesser barrier you will have in a long term of association with the person.
Example: You can call him and chat with him, get photographs from him. You can learn more from his voice and his photos. For example, he will give you if he think you are reliable. The voice and appearance are vital for people to choose whether to continue their dating.
Point: Do something to ensure whether you know him/her well, whether you decide to keep communication with. This is also a safety precaution.
Meet him/her at a public gathering
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Point: Get a public gathering is vital to your dating with him/her.
Reason: Prevent you from dangers such as the occasion of be assaulted or cheated by gang of swindlers. It is necessary to take this step. Once you were being hurt, you can call for help.
Example: Many men who want one night stand through online dating found they lost money when they woke up. What's more, a part of them lost their part of organs.
Point: Take more safety precaution before meeting with him/her. You can tell your friend the place you will go and the information of the man.
Online dating is interesting for the romantic atmosphere it offers and the challenge you will meet. People need to learn more, or will learn more through online dating. Psychology, Social Science and literature are all topics which are close related to this. You will upgrade from a green hand to an expert in online dating. Just bear in mind, safety comes first, then have your fun. Seize the opportunity and do not waste your time. After dozens of dating, you can write a guide book on this.
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