What are big parts in online dating? It is needless to say that your photo or Profile Pic is one of them. Whatever your profile pic or your photo, you should avoid unload or send negative ones. Your photos convey a lot of information such like the state of your healthy, your style in dressing, your social status, of course, the physical appearance comes first. A careful person will find more in your photos.
As the physical appearance comes first, there are some tips for you to make your photos.
Never use webcams, computer camera or your phone camera under two mega pixel.
PREP (Point, Reason, Example, Point)
Point: Use a webcam/computer camera /cell phone camera under two mega pixel to get your photo, it will make you sleazy.
Reason: Nowadays people have a lot of things to record their lives. Owing to high-tech, people can get their photos at a low cost. Using webcams or any other will give a bad first impression.
Example: Do you do not get one digital camera, or do you always in an internet bar? Business men seldom go to an internet bar, so do office lady and majority of people. This has nothing with your wealth, in other words, whether you have a camera. The only thing it reflect is you are a person who always wandering in an internet bar with nothing to do.
Point: If you do not have a digital camera, you can borrow one and make your photos. Cheap pics tell people you are lack of good taste.
Make your Photo as natural as you can
PREP (Point, Reason, Example, Point)
Point: Do not get a heavy make-up or be singularly dressed. Do not use photoshop or any other picture editor too much.
Reason: You are not in a theater or a play, therefore heavy make-up and singular dressing will scare your potential dates. Using the photoshop to edit your photo, but not too much. Or else, it can lead bad effect.
Example: People who are serious to find his/her mate would not take any steps above-mentioned. Online dating services is not a stage to show your special personality. Some people uploaded pics of their Gothic dressing, some used Photoshop too much which made him/she looked like a star. More worse, a part of people do not skilled in editing pics, thus got visible traces in their pics. All of these will make a person to be judged as unreliable.
Point: You should upload or send a clear natural photo if you are serious to online dating.
Make you Photos more beautiful and widely-accepted
PREP (Point, Reason, Example, Point)
Point: A beautiful photos has something with photoshop. While, a good photographic plate is most important. You can improve your photos by many means.
Reason: A nice person do not need any make-up, an ugly face do not look nicer after many times of PS and heavy make-up.
Example: You can take the advantage of light to improve your photos. If you want to be healthy and whiter, you can make your photos under front light. If you want to be deep in your features, you can make it under backlighting. Take a proper angle to photograph, upward view, bottom view or any other angle. Bear in mind, do not take a photograph from an angle which will be judged as non-mainstream, or like an art.
Point: Pay more attention on arrangement, surroundings and lighting. You dressing style is another factor in this part. If you have no idea to make yourself fashion, elegant or graceful, just google some classical matches in dressing. It will help you a lot.
There is some advice for people who want their photos widely-accepted:
If you want your photos widely-accepted, upload or send chromophotograph. Do not take any black and white pics, it will make you somewhat artsy. It also reflects nothing about spots, freckles and discolorations on your face.
Do not take a photo with a person of the opposite sex, even if he/she is much older/younger than you. It is strange to upload a pic of you and your mother/father. If he/she is your nephew or niece, you put you in risk of being judged as married/divorced with a child/children.
Do not take too many accessories when you take a photograph. That is not a good taste. Especially for men, do not wear hats or sunglasses. That will make you seem like you've got something to hide.
Also do not make professional glam shots or Pics after PS in dozens of times as mentioned above. People will suspect whether they saw is the truth, and they do not have time to discern him/her true colors.
Make a recent photo
Point: Upload or send a recent photo for your online dating. Do not use photo which took half a year ago or more further.
Reason: People can discern the times of you in the pics by the clothes you wearing and any other details. If you do not want to be judged as unreliable, get a recent photo.
Example: A group of people who engaged in online dating and said goodbye to each other when they met in reality. Someone uses his/her pics of long time ago which makes misleading.
Point: People who are serious and want to gather with the date would never use old picture. He/she would like to keep his/her profile always fresh.
Making a photo or pics for online dating requires a lot because photos are one of the best things to reflect more information of you. Once people think he/she is reliable and worth to keep association with, they would send/upload more pictures. Such as pics of themselves and their friend, pics of having fun, pics which convey more information about their lifestyle. Another way to get more attention is to upload some scenic snapshots, it can show your skills in photographing, or at least, a man love of nature.
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