Online dating services have an intense competition for attention. People want to attract more potential dates, thus they have to use all means to make them more charming. Someone posted outdated photos or filled false information in order to get more attention. While, almost all people are against this practice.
Being honest in your profile is important for you to make a long term online dating. If you are lack confidence in yourself, you can take some ways to make a better profile.
Here comes some tips for you to improve your profile:
Never make your profile negative:
PREP (Point, Reason, Example, Point)
Point: Making a sunny profile is a magnetite to others, and a negative one is a nuisances.
Reason: No one would like to hear complaints from a person who is gloomy. People have to overcome their difficulties and handle their own depression in their daily life. They come here not for being a recycle bin who help you to digest the stress or others but for fun. Once you knew him/her well, you can share your affections to him/her. Especially, do not write about your ex-girlfriend/boyfriend or something related to your former dating life.
Example: "To tell you the truth, I had an associate with a girl for eight years. We decide to get married this year. Suddenly she broke up with me and ran off with a wealthy people."
"A lot of people find his/her Miss/Mr. Right through online dating. I think I am not too bad, so I come here to have a try."
According to the two profiles, who do you want to get a further understanding?
Try to improve your profile to be more attractive. For example, you can replace "I have been lonely for a lone time." with "I enjoy the moment of solitude, but I like making friends. I know how to enjoy the life."
Point: No one want to be a loser or have an associate with a loser. Like most living creatures in the world, human have the nature to pursue a source of light. Therefore in your profile, avoid anything negative like the plague you have experienced. Try to be more positive.
Make your profile in detail and unique
PREP (Point, Reason, Example, Point)
Point: Do not describe your profile in general terms. That will make you submerging in a crowd.
Reason: Generalized description makes a person being judged bored and unimaginative. People can find nothing from a generalized description.
Example: "I like listening to music and watching movies. Taking a walk after lunch is one of my best hobbies. I believe a watery life is a true life. "
Do you attract by the man who wants a watery life? Listening to music and watching movies? That do not make any difference from others.
What about this one?
"I am crazy on various genres of music. I use Celtic to refresh myself, Ambient for meditation, Viking Metal for charging, Forest Metal for feeling more, and so on. A lot of movies are my beloved such as Pan's Labyrinth, Interview with the Vampire and Rain Man. Living a lightest life, but I could not live without my beloved one. I remember a lyrics: If you go with me, I will die for you. I hope to encounter my beloved here."
You may find clever words draw more attentions. If you are good at choosing words in profile, you will be a star.
If you like swimming, you can fill in'"I became a mermaid once I plunged into water." If you like to take a walking, you can say" I like excursion, and I take it every day after my lunch." This is also an impressive one for its black humor.
If you are not good at choosing words, just make your profile detailed. Tell people what kind of movies you like and why. Make everything you filled in your profile is explicit.
Point: Try to make your profile more attractive by using detailed description. You can take a lot of ways to make you special, literary, creative, humored or any other.
Narrow your focus to find potential dates you interested
PREP (Point, Reason, Example, Point)
Point: Do not cast an extensive net for online dating.
Reason: Once your profile attracted a lot of people, you will spend a lot of time on socializing with them. It will cost you too much time and energy. When your Mr./Miss Right comes, you may mess up it due to lacking of freshness and energy.
You are not using your profile to get more responses. Online dating is not a kind of select-elite, therefore do not make yourself being a Mr./Miss Popularity.
Example: Do not fill "I am looking for a gentleman who is warm-hearted and well-educated." in your profile. It is better to write "I think a man who went into media with an age between 24 and 30 suits me. If he is more than 175cm and under 160 pounds; kind and patient; can accompany me to watch live music and keep his words; and without a child, then I think we are perfect fit."
Point: More details in your profile about your choice of your mate will save you more time and make more effective.
Profile is an important part in online dating, just like a resume to a company. HR never give offers to a person with an unclear target. You should first know what kind of people you are searching for, and know yourself better. Fill your profile to promote yourself, you can get many ways to improve your profile. Another thing will aid you in online dating, that is, keep your profile fresh. You'd better change your profile frequently. For example, you can upload a new photo or write some comments on social phenomenon or your life. I mean, you can only write about your feelings about your life, do not describe it in detail. This is just for safety precaution.
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